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Women still have the upper hand in the courting world of modern colleges.
With the sun out on a beautiful afternoon in the middle of the San Jose State University campus you could find many people looking for shade and recluse from the burning sun. Around the south side of the Olympic statues a man and woman sat with their legs crossed shaded from the sun and had a cheerful conversation. Clearly this guy was very interested in his women companion by the way he spoke and his mannerisms.
The male was very animated and used many hand gestures not only to make his conversation topic seem more meaningful, but also to engage the young woman in some physical playfulness. She continued to not reciprocate his touching and seem to be friendly but not willing to cross into the realm of affectionate touching.
Sun passed over top and the two continued their pleasant conversation that seem to range from school and mutual friends all the way to what a nearby squirrel does with the acorns he finds. As their break wound down the two stood up and with all the jokes and the kindergarten type of flirting, all the man got was a high five and they left their separate ways. All of the males old school techniques and conversation topics could not budge the pretty woman to open up to him and in the end the woman trotted off with her confidence at a new high for the day and the male thinking of what went wrong or what he could have done different. The search continues for the male.
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
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Interesting you look at this as a loss for the Male and a win for the woman. The fact that maybe he was only interested in her as another human being ?? She maybe shared that she has herpes and he chose to show interest anyway...
Something to ponder when very seldom do people speak face to face. I see groups of friends walking together talking to other groups on their phones. There is something very special about having a conversation with NO agenda.
I learned this along time ago from my sons.
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